
Frustrated
So the three shoots i had the other day turned out 2 b just one. i'm eternally grateful to my gyrls Telle and Kuni 4 coming thru 4 me.
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as u can c, the shoot went well and i felt great afterwards. felt productive and accomplished.
still high off of the last shoot i was ready 4 the next which was 2 take
Hard Candy 2010 Underway
i know i've been away for quite sometime. i've been organizing and preparing 2 shoot the new wall calendar. it's almost 7am and i've been up since 4. i have a photoshoot today, actually, three shoots. and i rarely sleep b4 a shoot. i'm always too excited and too nervous. it's my thing. my craft. so i'm working out poses in my head. i'm getting the technical aspects figured out.
Gay “Pride”
Hard Candy Stud Calendar participated in our first Pride parade in Chicago this year. there was nothing but fun and sun. thank goodness for Gatoraid! as i walked and walked and walked and walked along the parade routes, i had plenty of moments where my mind simply wandered. looking into the faces of gays and their supporters ranging in ages from 2 months old to 800 months old, screaming in
Call Me Mr. Lez
doms are womyn with swagger. womyn. right? they don't want 2 b a man. some. right? some do. right? i don't really know. i'm askin you. what's the deal with the masculine pronouns, nicknames and whatnot.
ok, sometimes butches get mistaken for dudes. they brush it off, ignore it and let it go. fine. i get it. sometimes it's annoying to explain. or u dont' feel like it dealing with the
Men not wanted but needed
it's June and just like last month was about mothers. this month is about the fathers. well, i dunno if i could dedicate a month's worth of posts about men (and how they relate to us), but let's see.
last month's poll was about dating womyn with children. pleasantly, most people displayed no prejudice against the mommies. a few people would under certain conditions and one person said they'd date a
MILF Island
everyone has heard the bleak statistic that 70% of black children are born to single mothers. there is clearly a break down in relationships between men and womyn. i have no solution for that. but i do want to discuss some of the fall out. due to the changing climate, there seems 2 b an influx of frustrated womyn turning 2 womyn because some man has let them down. i'm
Worries of a Gay Mom
i'm a natural worrier. i just do it. for everything. i worry about germs. i worry about war. i worry about finances. i worry about the weather. just worry. and having children multiplied the worry factor by 100. i have 2 little human beings to worry about. i worry about their health. i worry about their grades. i worry about their future. i worry. the same worries that all mothers
Stud Moms Get No Respect
Mother's Day was lovely for me and my family. times are tight so we kept it simple. material gifts took a back seat. my gyrl's family has a tradition in which the family gathers for dinner and everyone serves the mothers. all the place settings had our names and as the year before i was included and terribly flattered. however, my gyrl wasn't included at the table of honor. instead
Happy Mother’s Day!
Mom by Association
in keeping with the theme of Mother's Day this month, i'd like to discuss womyn who date womyn with kids. as a woman with kids, i'm happy that they don't discriminate like so many others do. their perogative of course but it's nice to know that there are some who don't treat womyn with kids as damaged goods.
anywho, here's the other half of my rant on my previous post.
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