http://hardcandycalendar.com/blog/2009/06/13/call-me-mr-lez/ Just another WordPress site Sat, 22 Aug 2009 12:28:05 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://hardcandycalendar.com/blog/2009/06/13/call-me-mr-lez/#comment-43 suitesomethings Thu, 25 Jun 2009 02:45:30 +0000 http://suitesomethings.wordpress.com/?p=147#comment-43 hey knowledge, i can always count on you 2 add some incredibly insightful commentary. i feel much more enlightened. hey knowledge,
i can always count on you 2 add some incredibly insightful commentary. i feel much more enlightened.

]]> http://hardcandycalendar.com/blog/2009/06/13/call-me-mr-lez/#comment-42 knowledge Wed, 24 Jun 2009 19:00:55 +0000 http://suitesomethings.wordpress.com/?p=147#comment-42 This is a great topic. Very touchy subject for a lot of studs I'd imagine. For most of our lives there is a sense of simply trying to find oneself, and often you hear a labels being applied to you, even masculine identified labels are applied and some studs reject, some accept, varying reasons. Feminine labels don't affect the swagger, but they're interesting in their own sense because they could be deemed as detracting from our masculinity somehow. I've dated girls that have called me Papi, Daddi, etc, and I didn't protest because those labels were borne of respect for how I identify as a more masculine lesbian, even if I do not under any circumstances want to be a man. Same with Boi or Bro or Bruh. Among most of the studs I know, these are terms of endearment, not terms that signify a disconent of or with our/their womanhood. This is a great topic. Very touchy subject for a lot of studs I’d imagine. For most of our lives there is a sense of simply trying to find oneself, and often you hear a labels being applied to you, even masculine identified labels are applied and some studs reject, some accept, varying reasons. Feminine labels don’t affect the swagger, but they’re interesting in their own sense because they could be deemed as detracting from our masculinity somehow. I’ve dated girls that have called me Papi, Daddi, etc, and I didn’t protest because those labels were borne of respect for how I identify as a more masculine lesbian, even if I do not under any circumstances want to be a man. Same with Boi or Bro or Bruh. Among most of the studs I know, these are terms of endearment, not terms that signify a disconent of or with our/their womanhood.

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