http://hardcandycalendar.com/blog/2009/05/20/worries-of-a-gay-mom/ Just another WordPress site Sat, 22 Aug 2009 12:28:05 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://hardcandycalendar.com/blog/2009/05/20/worries-of-a-gay-mom/#comment-38 knowledge Fri, 05 Jun 2009 01:49:32 +0000 http://suitesomethings.wordpress.com/?p=128#comment-38 I worry because I have a nephew and sometimes I don't think my sister is capable of raising him on her own. I worry because I want her to get married and provide him with a solid foundation instead of struggling as she does as a single parent and dating aimlessly. I worry, but not a mother's worry, and I could never know the depth of the worrying that you mothers do. But I can only imagine, and wonder about the weight of such a responsibility that comes with bringing a human life into the world and nurturing their growth and worrying about their well-being and quality of life. It's a blessing and sometimes from the outside looking in, at times it can be an overbearing burden, but strengh overcomes and unconditional love perseveres and all you can do is your very best. That's all any of us can do. We worry, we laugh, we live, we love and we worry some more. It comes with the cycle of life, and knowing that doesn't make it any easier to withstand, but just know you aren't alone. I worry because I have a nephew and sometimes I don’t think my sister is capable of raising him on her own. I worry because I want her to get married and provide him with a solid foundation instead of struggling as she does as a single parent and dating aimlessly. I worry, but not a mother’s worry, and I could never know the depth of the worrying that you mothers do. But I can only imagine, and wonder about the weight of such a responsibility that comes with bringing a human life into the world and nurturing their growth and worrying about their well-being and quality of life. It’s a blessing and sometimes from the outside looking in, at times it can be an overbearing burden, but strengh overcomes and unconditional love perseveres and all you can do is your very best. That’s all any of us can do. We worry, we laugh, we live, we love and we worry some more. It comes with the cycle of life, and knowing that doesn’t make it any easier to withstand, but just know you aren’t alone.

]]> http://hardcandycalendar.com/blog/2009/05/20/worries-of-a-gay-mom/#comment-39 knowledge Fri, 05 Jun 2009 01:49:32 +0000 http://suitesomethings.wordpress.com/?p=128#comment-39 I worry because I have a nephew and sometimes I don't think my sister is capable of raising him on her own. I worry because I want her to get married and provide him with a solid foundation instead of struggling as she does as a single parent and dating aimlessly. I worry, but not a mother's worry, and I could never know the depth of the worrying that you mothers do. But I can only imagine, and wonder about the weight of such a responsibility that comes with bringing a human life into the world and nurturing their growth and worrying about their well-being and quality of life. It's a blessing and sometimes from the outside looking in, at times it can be an overbearing burden, but strengh overcomes and unconditional love perseveres and all you can do is your very best. That's all any of us can do. We worry, we laugh, we live, we love and we worry some more. It comes with the cycle of life, and knowing that doesn't make it any easier to withstand, but just know you aren't alone. I worry because I have a nephew and sometimes I don’t think my sister is capable of raising him on her own. I worry because I want her to get married and provide him with a solid foundation instead of struggling as she does as a single parent and dating aimlessly. I worry, but not a mother’s worry, and I could never know the depth of the worrying that you mothers do. But I can only imagine, and wonder about the weight of such a responsibility that comes with bringing a human life into the world and nurturing their growth and worrying about their well-being and quality of life. It’s a blessing and sometimes from the outside looking in, at times it can be an overbearing burden, but strengh overcomes and unconditional love perseveres and all you can do is your very best. That’s all any of us can do. We worry, we laugh, we live, we love and we worry some more. It comes with the cycle of life, and knowing that doesn’t make it any easier to withstand, but just know you aren’t alone.

]]> http://hardcandycalendar.com/blog/2009/05/20/worries-of-a-gay-mom/#comment-36 Fallon Tue, 26 May 2009 03:33:09 +0000 http://suitesomethings.wordpress.com/?p=128#comment-36 I often wonder and worry about the same things. I am a lesbian raising two boys. I worry if they'll be gay just because they see that everyday, I worry if they'll be made fun of or laughed at. I worry that I can't give them what they need. How can a woman raise 2 growing boys??? I try the best I can by telling them to hold doors open for women and always let a woman take a turn first (yes I even do this at the park when it comes to slides and swings)...I don't know...I just worry...I never knew you could worry so much about the future. I never cared about the future, now I know that every decision I make for them today affects their future...and that scares the SHIT out of me!!! I often wonder and worry about the same things. I am a lesbian raising two boys. I worry if they’ll be gay just because they see that everyday, I worry if they’ll be made fun of or laughed at. I worry that I can’t give them what they need. How can a woman raise 2 growing boys??? I try the best I can by telling them to hold doors open for women and always let a woman take a turn first (yes I even do this at the park when it comes to slides and swings)…I don’t know…I just worry…I never knew you could worry so much about the future. I never cared about the future, now I know that every decision I make for them today affects their future…and that scares the SHIT out of me!!!

]]> http://hardcandycalendar.com/blog/2009/05/20/worries-of-a-gay-mom/#comment-37 Fallon Tue, 26 May 2009 03:33:09 +0000 http://suitesomethings.wordpress.com/?p=128#comment-37 I often wonder and worry about the same things. I am a lesbian raising two boys. I worry if they'll be gay just because they see that everyday, I worry if they'll be made fun of or laughed at. I worry that I can't give them what they need. How can a woman raise 2 growing boys??? I try the best I can by telling them to hold doors open for women and always let a woman take a turn first (yes I even do this at the park when it comes to slides and swings)...I don't know...I just worry...I never knew you could worry so much about the future. I never cared about the future, now I know that every decision I make for them today affects their future...and that scares the SHIT out of me!!! I often wonder and worry about the same things. I am a lesbian raising two boys. I worry if they’ll be gay just because they see that everyday, I worry if they’ll be made fun of or laughed at. I worry that I can’t give them what they need. How can a woman raise 2 growing boys??? I try the best I can by telling them to hold doors open for women and always let a woman take a turn first (yes I even do this at the park when it comes to slides and swings)…I don’t know…I just worry…I never knew you could worry so much about the future. I never cared about the future, now I know that every decision I make for them today affects their future…and that scares the SHIT out of me!!!

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